the DIFFERENT types of friendship

the word friendship much familiar to everyone. the definition of a friend is of a person you are aquainted with. and associate who provides assistance, who you know well with affections and trust.

there are many different types of people in this world. some has no friends at all. some have true friends. and some, their friends are not even what you're suppose to call friends. they're just mere titles given to the people you see and hang out with everyday.

there are different types of people in this world again I say. therefor, there are many different types of friendship exists.

type one:
- there are friends who you were once so close to. who you thought were your best friends. but they could actually turn their back on you for popularity. it does happen. they think you're not cool enough and apparently status are more important than friendship for them. tehy leave you so they can join the so-called popular group and become known and loved.

- and you're just left alone. bewildered of what to do. the person you once believe you can trust most, the one you cna depend on, has just left you. Like you're a broken down bicycle. they just dump you there. not having a care in the world. they just couldn't be bothered by how you might feel. or whats to happen to you now. they only care for themselves and how much important it is for them to be popular.

- and now, whenevr you pass them, either they'd pretend they never met you, or they'll just turned away. they might even just put a smile, says hi and walk off. this shit happens. but what is weird is, sometimes, if their plan backfires, or they found themselves not without the popular group, they'd just be back on you feet and go like.. 'hey wanna hang out?'

type two:
- some friends, just dissapeared.

- they do. one day after years, they'd have to move or go away. and the next thing you know. you'd be wondering where they are, what they're doing. wether or not they're still alive and bretahing. if they're in good conditions. and wondering why they haven't even make contact with you.

- but again they can't all be blame. maybe they have been trying but you just never able to get your hands on their contact details. so, they just... long gone. you might never hear from them again.

type three:
- maybe up till one day, you suddenly go to a seminar and meet them, or you're going to the mosque to do your prayers and suddenly, out of no where, you just see your old friend praying just next to you! its ironic!

- and you found out that all this while, they have been thinking of you. they too have been wondering the same thing you wonder about them. to learn that they still do remember you, even though they could have mixed up your name. and soon, you're sitting in front of your computer, chatting happily with them. digging up memories you shared with them when you were younger.

- and one day, you got to know that they actually wrote about you in their english essay, titled 'my best friend'. its so flattering. the fact that they still remember you and they're actually there, and now you're back to those dyas where you play and joke around with them. going out and have fun with them. actually tightening the bond you once had.

- and thats what you call a friend.

type four:
- there are also friends that you yourself don't even remember. you know you know them, but you just don't remember their looks, or how they were, or their name even. and thats bad!

- I don't know what to say more about this type.


type five:
- these are friends that lives far from you. they've moved on. to a new place. they might be thinking of you, or not. you'd never know. because you just don't talk to them. even though they actually might be there. waiting for one another to just strike up a conversation. but none even actually make the point or effort to.

- so its just that, they're there, right under your range of contact, but you don't. as if they're just THERE!

- up till one day, you see a person that looks like them. just a random person pass you by, or a person who you meet at your tuition and that person just reminds you so much of the friend you parted with, and you find yourself missing that friend up to the point where you just feel like talking to them right there and then.

- or you might even feel the urge to talk to the resemblance person and act as if they are the friend you've been neglecting. but you know you can't.

type six:
- this kind is the friend you'r close with, but not up to the point where you actually tell them secrets. sometimes, you don't even know what to talk about. sure you see them everyday, and they're always there with you at lunch time, but you find yourself blurt out and say 'last summer, I kissed BLAR BLAR' or something like that.

- some you just can't go straight out like you can to few others. its just different. its not an act of hate, or dislikeness, or prefering the other better, or no trusting them, just the fact that you're just not able to.

type seven:
- but there are also friends who you can just seem to tell EVERYTHING to. you just can open up to those kind of people. words just come out when you're around them. you feel as if they cna help you, and they'd just listen to you. they'll make you feel comfortable. and they're just there.

- and these kind of people, doesn't even have to come in the same package as you are. they could just be the total opposite of you. everything you like, can the everything that person hate. and it could be the other way round. it could be in any way. but you're just able to hold that bond with them. and they're the person you can rely most on.

- and this might just be the person you stick with your whole life. in years to come, you could just see yourself sitting next to these people, sipping cocoa at a cafe and talking bout the good old days.

- and these are the real meaning of friendship. the people who actually appreciates one another. and help them through thick and thin. and stay with them till the end.

type eight:
- and there are also people who you just can't find yourself to be aquainted with. you just use to loath the person and can never see yourself talking and chatting with the person ever without killing each other.

- and after years, you find that that exact same people, turn out to be the one you call best friend. and actually meaning it. they'd be the one by your side, listening to all your rambles, craps and problems.

- you just appreciate them SO MUCH!!

type nine:
- they are also such friendship that can turn to love. its true. you might nnever actually look at the person, until one day when you just actually, took a second look. cometimes, you'd never even guess it could ever happen. things like this comes unexpectedly.

type ten:
- and the one person you're closest most with, is yourself. you live with the person, you do everything with him/her. every minute you spend doing exactly what they do. they're always THERE FOR YOU! and this is the person you can trust MOST!! every desicion they make, effects you. so this person is the very first person you have to take care of. their health, looks, personality, doings, things thay say, and them themselves!


- so who do you think you are!?